6 Things Guys need to know about dating a Single Mom

The Mingling Momma speaks the truth right here! I couldn’t resist re-blogging her wonderful piece on how to date and win with a single mum. Numbers 2, 3 and 4 particularly resonated with me! Don’t mess us around, don’t play games and – if we make the time to meet for a date – don’t cancel at the last minute or fuck up our plans because it’s likely you won’t get a second chance! Time is precious when you run a household by yourself and have limited me-time. Read on if you dare.

The Mingling Momma

Hot Guy I met through a mutual friend

“Don’t worry, I’ve already had time to process that you have kids”

Newly Single Me

“Don’t worry, there was no need… I’d never have you anywhere f*cking near them”

It was the first time anything like this had been said to me. I was annoyed and insulted.

Why would the fact I have children even come into it at this point?


Why would I worry if a man I had known for an hour tops cared that I do?

When people with no kids meet for the first time, they don’t think about the future or what might happen. The first natural step is to see if there’s a spark, and if there is – they date, and if they begin to really like each other – they become a couple. They might see each other a few times a week…

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30 Things Women Want Men To Know

I couldn’t resist sharing these fabulous tips with you. Some of these are really gold plated tips and we might think they’re obvious but believe this cougar, they are damn well not! Read on if you dare! Thanks to MaKupsy.


I was really trying to avoid blogging about anything concerning sex but I guess it was highly inevitable.  Today I am sharing those things most women wish men knew but simply don’t tell them.  My personal thoughts are points 1-10 and 30 and the rest of the points are from the women I asked.  Here’s hoping no one takes offence but maybe takes notes instead and make sex something both you and your partner enjoy.


  1. It is not about the quantity but the quality of sex. Why are you trying to have 8 rounds of 2 minute sex??  One session of good sex is good enough and if you are doing things right and hitting the spot then by all means rest assured I am fine.
  2. Size does matter. For me that is, that motion for the ocean line doesn’t hold water.  I am a big girl, I like big things.

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